The Art of the Host Gift: Modern Etiquette & Thoughtful Ideas
In a world that often feels rushed and digital-first, the return of in-person dinners, weekend lunches, and garden gatherings is something to be savoured. With that, the age old art of being a good guest is quietly making a comeback too. Whether you're joining friends for supper or staying the weekend with extended family, a small, meaningful gift for your host can speak volumes.
Do You Have to Bring Something?
Strictly speaking, no. But a thoughtful token is a warm way to say: "Thank you for opening your home." It doesn’t have to be extravagant or expensive; even a bar of beautifully wrapped chocolate or a single bloom from your garden can feel like a heartfelt gesture. In our age of minimalism and intentional living, it’s the thoughtfulness that matters most.
Classic Host Gifts That Never Fail
Certain host gifts have stood the test of time for good reason. They're practical, versatile, and easy to personalise:
- A bottle of wine or fizz - Bonus points if it's something the host wouldn't usually buy for themselves.
- A pair of hand-blocked linen napkins - Useful, beautiful, and sustainable.
- A thoughtfully chosen candle - Opt for clean scents that suit a range of homes.
- A bunch of seasonal flowers - Wrap them in brown paper or a cotton cloth.
- A book or independent magazine - Especially if it aligns with their interests or recent conversations.
Include a small card or note with your name. It’s a lovely touch, especially if you're part of a larger gathering where names and faces can blur.
Elevate the Everyday
Sometimes it's the presentation that makes all the difference. A simple tea towel can become something special when tied with velvet ribbon. A jar of homemade jam or a local honey pot tucked into a basket feels intentional. For summer lunches or winter suppers, a small LNH Edit piece like block-printed napkins or a hand-poured candle is the kind of gift that blends style with substance.
When Not to Bring Wine
If your host is a wine lover, it might seem obvious to bring a bottle. But if they're particular (or pairing drinks with food), your wine might never get opened. In these cases, a non-consumable gift, like napkins, fun serving plate or napkin rings.
A Note for Hosts, Too
If you're the one hosting, don't feel the pressure to overdo it. A few considered touches, like a linen tablecloth, a couple of candles, and a relaxed meal, this can create an atmosphere that feels both beautiful and effortless. Hosting is about connection, not perfection.